Some of us truly live for the applause, and this week’s guest will not shy away from that fact. Comedian and performer Emily Dayton Evans joins us to talk about her journey from fragile human to saliva-swapping comedian. Did you know it was possible to grown up in Vermont without a driver’s license? Are walkie...

If you’re comedian Eman El-Husseini’s therapist, DO NOT listen to this episode. We had so much fun catching up with Eman about all of her ‘late in life’ activities, like getting into edibles and terrible lesbian movies. Also, why do people in Buffalo allegedly hate Bon Jovi? Is it okay to compete in couples therapy?...

Our favorite celesbian gossip queen, Liza Dye (@BettePorterGallery) takes a break from living her best Jenny Schecter life to share her thoughts on headline-making queers. From defending Cara Delevigne’s public behavior, to calling out a that’s-so-questionable marriage, to stanning the messiest queers . And yet, we don’t get a change to dish on some of...

From queer tumblr icon to diy financial guru (gay-ru?), Gaby Dunn joins us to talk about the oppressive systems working against us. Don’t worry, we make it fun! Fresh off the release of their newebook and audiobook on Scribd, Stimulus Wreck: Rebuilding After a Financial Crisis, Gaby talks about navigating our new reality and rebuilding after a...

Full disclosure: we recorded this episode a few weeks ago when we were at normal rage levels. So take a listen and remember slightly less terrifying times as comedy writer Ely Kreimendahl teaches us about dramatic psycho therapy and so much more! Carolyn and Ely bond over their time at school in Boston where they...

Fresh off the release of her new podcast Welcome To Provincetown, award-winning audio documentarian Mitra Kaboli joins us to d*ke out about the town with seemingly few d*kes around! We do our best Nancy Drew impression and try to piece together why this gaycation destination centers cis gay men. For real, we want to know...

Local twerking celeb and comedian Flora Manon joins us to talk about bruised knees, breakups, and one hot bartender. It’s a wild episode where we touch on a little bit of everything, from cat collages to moms doing the work to disabled sisters who need to be taken down a peg. We also talk about...

Get out your leather and *checks notes* American Revolution leotards? Because we’re talking all things kink with writer, activist, and BDSM practitioner Yin Q! Okay, maybe not ALL things, but Melody and Carolyn ask Yin all the newbie and vulnerable questions we could think of. What stops people from exploring kink? What are read flags...

You’re in for a sweet treat because we’re having a gay ol’ time with hilarious comedian Honey Pluton! Honey goes off on all the things our community needs to be reminded of. Like what should you do if you run into an ex at Pride? What are the queer bases? Why does @$$ eating have...

Get out your forks and dig into this ep featuring your new spaghetti-loving long-distance crush, Samee Junio (Historical Roasts on Netflix)! We’re talking carbs, tattoos, dogs, long-distance relationships, astrology, and more. It’s more like, what don’t we talk about? Plus, how gay can one make karaoke? And can you watch a queer movie too many...

We made contact with comedian and writer DeAnne Smith (Netflix) from their underground Canadian bunker for an episode that will have you thinking about nipples, or the absence of them. DeAnne tells us about their recovery from top surgery, the overwhelming nipple considerations, and the sick rack they parted with. We also address Important Lesbian...

This episode is sponsored by Ana Luisa Jewelry offering a special discount for our listeners. Anne Lister is THRIVING thanks our guest Sally Wainwright, the creator of Gentleman Jack , now in its second season on HBO. Whether or not you’ve seen the show, this is the perfect episode to learn more about one of...