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Healing w/ Chemda – Ep. 144

When life tests us through heartbreak or tragedy, we have to find ways to heal our wounds and move forward. And if anyone knows this, it’s Chemda (Keith and The Girl) who dykes out with us about her journey from straight-ish girl, to queer relationship, to heartache – both literal and figurative. Love, loss, and...

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Labels w/ Becca Blackwell – Ep. 143

This episode is everything and nothing, because that’s where we always end up when discussing labels. But to us, it’s actually everything because we’re dyking out with the hilarious and entertaining Becca Blackwell (High Maintenance on HBO)! We talk about their gender and sexuality journey, as well as their relationship to labels throughout their life....

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Sex Parties w/ Fatimah Asghar – Ep. 142

It’s a sex party (chat), and you’re invited (to listen)! Poet and filmmaker Fatimah Asghar (Brown Girls, NPR, PBS) joins us to dyke out about sex parties, which inspired her latest short film Got Game. First, apologies for the guest audio. It was the best we could get given the circumstances, but it’s such a...

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Dating w/ Alysia Brown – Ep. 141

A dating episode in the midst of a global pandemic? If anyone can still have game when the world feels upside down, it’s comedian Alysia Brown. From back-to-back dates to picking up audience members on Zoom shows and everything in between, Alysia does it all. She tells us about her dating life before COVID, during...

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Lilith Fair w/ Thao Nguyen – Ep.140

Want an episode that truly lives up to the podcast’s name? Because we’re dyking out with singer-songwriter Thao Nguyen (Thao & The Get Down Stay Down) about Lilith Fair, and that might be as gay as it gets! But first, Carolyn and Melody mourn the loss of Naya Rivera and talk about what her performance...

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Equity w/ Rachael Rapinoe – Ep. 139

Let’s level the playing field by striving for equity both on and off the field (or court, or rink, or office flooring, etc). Rachael Rapinoe joins us this week to talk about how she’s working to create equity in the CBD/Cannabis industry. Before she co-founded her company Mendi, she was a professional soccer player who...

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Keeping It Real w/ Erika Owens – Ep. 138

We’re dyking out across the world with photographer Erika Owens, who many of you know from the latest season of TLC’s 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days. Erika stands out on the show for quite a few reasons. She’s part of the first queer pairing on the show, she’s super fun and likable, and...

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Self Love w/ Jerrell Tate – Ep. 137

We could all use a little more self love, especially this pride month. That’s why we’re dyking out with the very funny and wonderful Jerrell Tate from the MinoriTEA Report podcast. Jerrell, like many in our community, had a long road to self-acceptance and appreciating what makes him different. We talk about how hard it...

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Loud & Proud w/ Molly Kearney – Ep. 136

We’re in the thick of Pride month and cooked up this TREAT of an episode with the super funny and wonderful Molly Kearney (Comedy Central). Molly lives her life loud and proud, and she makes it seem so fun and effortless. What is this beautiful butch dyke’s origin story? What gay things is this double-cannon...

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Bad Lesbian w/ Lauren Flans – Ep. 135

Actor/Writer/Podcaster and self-proclaimed bad lesbian Lauren Flans (Coming Out Pod, Wild ‘n Out) joins us to talk about all the ways in which we feel like we’re failing our identity. Astrology? Bah humbug. Cats? Allergic. Friends? Mostly cishet dudes. But are these really pillars of lesbianism that we need to shame ourselves for not meeting,...

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Fluidity w/ Mae Martin – Ep.134

Pride month is here! We wouldn’t be where we are today if it wasn’t for the brave Black and Brown trans women who rioted against police brutality. That brutality maybe have eased for the queer community (it’s definitely still there), but as many of you know, it never let up for the Black communities in...

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Persianality w/ Desiree Akhavan – Ep. 133

We’re not Dyking Out with any ol’ bisexual this week. We’ve got THE Bisexual, Desiree Akhavan! After hyping her work for years (Appropriate Behavior, The Miseducation of Cameron Post), we finally sit down and talk about her life as a Persian, queer filmmaker quarantined in Brooklyn. While Carolyn finds Desiree’s work super relatable, Melody finds...

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